You Know You’re In Love When…

Send Love EcardsThe tell-tale signs of love are not easy to identify if you are the person concerned. You may be showing the symptoms of love but not knowing it yourself. That is when your friends and close ones come to know of it and ask you if you are in love. But how do you know it yourself? The first sign that tells you you’re smitten is that you smile for no reason, and even at unpleasant situations. You might be getting a good trashing for a project report but inside you, you’re feeling all warm and fuzzy! It’s as if the thought of this special person takes you to a plane where all other mundane things can’t touch you.

The next sign could be that you are paying more attention to your clothes and the way you look. Whatever you may wear seems to be lacking in something and you spend hours before the mirror, changing your clothes to put on the best one. You could also be talking about this special person to anyone you meet and has ears to listen to you. No matter what the starting point of the discussion is, you will slowly be taking the discussion to the point where you can talk about your love. You might not like to go out with your gang of friends anymore. Every moment seems wasted if you can’t spend it with the special one. And when you meet this person, you can’t wait to ensure when you can meet up next!

If your answers to all these questions are a resounding yes, well then my friend, if you look carefully, you’ll find Cupid’s arrow somewhere in your heart! Enjoy this feeling without trying to worry too much as to what will happen in the future. If you have more pointers which you want to share with us, you are welcome!

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5 thoughts on “You Know You’re In Love When…

  1. Bob,
    Yes, it’s resounding all right. How do you know so much? It amazes me.
    And why is it so? that my conversations always come around to talking about this person. So much so, that now I try to keep it to myself when I want to talk about him to others. And Cupid’s arrow? Ha! I feel like I am dealing with a Cupid who has a Gatlin gun loaded with arrows pointed right at me. The first time I ever saw this guy, I felt surprisingly at home. As if I have known him all my life. Just fell into being with him. He’s adorable, affectionate, kind and smart as a whip. I smile everytime I think of his smile and voice. His eyes are so searching, observant. His hands are strong, warm, manly and on the rare occassion that I have held one, I felt so deeply in love with him, that I had no controll. And you are so right in saying, that it gets more difficult to go out with friends. I love everyone of them, but my mind gets so distracted thinking about him that I prefer to be alone more often and work. Because I do very much enjoy this feeling of loving him. Everyday I am happy because he is my dearest friend. My life hasn’t been the same since I met him. He has helped so many people who are less fortunate and I feel that I have not. But I want to do so now. And it will happen soon, because of his example. Love is strange but familiar.
    Mouyshka

  2. Well one more pointer i would like to share is….that u see that person everywhere u move…in my case when i was at work…specially in staff meetings I used to smile often..coz i used to see him( rather imagine him in the office)moving around…n at times good trashing from my boss for smiling during meeting for no reason…but couldnt help smiling…

  3. Bob, Yes, it’s resounding all right. It amazes me how much you understand about human nature and love. And why is it so that my conversations always do come around to talking about this person I’m in love with? And Cupid’s arrow? Ha! I feel like I am dealing with a heavily armed Cupid who has a Gatlin gun loaded with many arrows aimed right at my heart. The first time I ever saw my friend, I felt surprisingly at home with him. As if I have known him all my life. Felt so good being with him. He’s adorable, affectionate, kind and smart as a whip. I smile everytime I think of his smile or hear his voice. His eyes are so searching, observant. His hands are strong, warm, manly and on the rare occassion that I have held one, I fell so deeply in love with him that I was speechless. And you are so right in saying that it becomes more difficult to go out with friends. I do have good friends, but my mind gets so distracted thinking about him that I prefer to be alone more often and just work so I am able to think of him. Because I do very much enjoy this feeling of loving him. Every day I am happy because this sweet friend is alive and beautiful. My life hasn’t been the same since I met him. He has helped so many people less fortunate than we are. Because of his example, I also want to help others. I have a plan to do so and I will try the best that I can. Just by his acts of kindness, he really has revamped many of my beliefs that I thought were important and has made me see people in a different light.
    Love is strange but familiar.
    Mousya

  4. That’s love exactly.

    That post made me smile.

    Its a shame as the relationship grows older you still love them just as much but have talked about them to death you have nothing left to compliment or say.

    Like a broken record.

    You still love that person but many people miss those first moments of falling in love and wish to live it again.

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