Shanon and I were relaxing on her porch, the crisp Thanksgiving air wrapping around us. Dinner was done and the rich aroma of roasted turkey still lingered. Despite the festive warmth, Shanon’s face held a shadow of worry. She sighed and said, “Bob, I’m so thankful for everything I have but it’s just overwhelming. My possessions—they’re supposed to make life easier but instead, I’m stuck in this cycle of working harder, earning more and paying off endless credit card bills. I can’t even sleep without my mind racing.”
I said, “Shanon, it sounds like you’re carrying more than you need to. Have you ever thought that maybe less could actually mean more?”
She gave me a doubtful look. “I know what you’re saying, Bob but I love my stuff—especially my shoes and those shiny Black Friday deals. It’s so hard to resist!”
I chuckled softly and said, “I get it but think about this: the less you own, the less you have to manage, stress over, or maintain. Happiness doesn’t come from collecting more—it comes from needing less. When you simplify, you create space for what really matters—your relationships, your dreams, your peace of mind.”
Shanon nodded slowly, “But where do I even start? Everything feels like it’s important.”
“Start small,” I encouraged her. “Take a good look at your closet, your drawers. Find the things you haven’t used in months, maybe even years, and let them go. Donate them, sell them—whatever feels right. And next time you’re tempted by a purchase, just pause. Ask yourself, ‘Do I need this, or is it just a passing want?’”
She tilted her head, thinking it over. “So, it’s not just about cleaning up—it’s about changing how I see happiness?”
I smiled. “Exactly, Shanon. Happiness isn’t about having more; it’s about creating room for what truly matters—your goals, your relationships, and your inner calm.”
The corners of her mouth lifted into a small smile, and she gave a thoughtful nod. The night unfolded into deeper conversation, but I could tell she was already lighter.
To you, dear reader: In a world that celebrates “more,” remember this: true freedom often lies in letting go. When you release what doesn’t add value, you make room for the things that actually do!
