Do you know why most of the relationships come to an untimely end?
Lack of understanding.
Do you know why most of the relationships lack understanding?
Lack of conversational time.
That’s the fact. Not many even understand the need to talk to each other in a relationship. There lies the problem. You should know what it takes to hold a relationship together. Sit and talk with your beloved as simple as that.
Yes, it is as simple as that. It doesn’t cost anything, but time. Time is what your beloved would need. The precious time that you are willing to expend at work and/or with friends is the time he or she needs.
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Get your priorities right. Yes, you need your space and time, but not at the cost of losing it at where it matters more.
Often times, we take our relationships at default and that is a problem. Not many try to find out what the story with the other person is.
Whether the individual involved needs your ear or shoulder you can’t fathom until you know what’s plaguing them, right?
Get involved and get to know.
And always remember the reason why you got into a relationship or a marriage in the first place.
You were in love.
You wanted to be cared for. You cared.
Don’t forget those little things and your life will be infinitely happier.
And here is the clincher: You will never know how much the individual and the relationship meant to you until you lose it. And when you do lose it, it is almost impossible to get it back.
Things that are sold can be bought back, but feelings that are hurt never reciprocate. They leave you high and dry and you would have all the time in the world for the individual now, but he or she wouldn’t.
Beware and be ready.