Love and friendship are delicate relationships and quite sensitive and oftentimes dramatic. Many breakups happen when we take love for granted. Nothing in this world can be taken for granted, except maybe for mother’s love, which is by default.

For everything else you have to work on it. There are no free lunches in this world. Everything has a price. Even love. Yes, but the price you pay for love is reassurance and trust. You got to reassure the people you love that they are the most important in the world for you.

‘I need my space’, dialogues are for the fancy folk who don’t value love. Space is not something that your partner or spouse should give you. You have to make space for yourself in a relationship. Don’t ask for it. When you do, insecurity creeps in.

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You see, when you say you want your space, your partner is going to first get hurt and then start thinking about what fills that space of yours.

Now, that is dangerous, isn’t it?

Remember, in a relationship everything is remembered. No word you utter is said and forgotten.

Do not allow insecurity to creep in. Once that enters your life then it brings its friends jealousy, suspicion and irritability along with it and that will eventually lead to love walking out and just a void remaining.

Same thing applies for friendship.

The reason this happens is again your notion that friendship will wait and should wait.

No. it shouldn’t and it won’t. Every relationship needs reciprocation!.

Give it that!