We love to go out on an interesting date, don’t we? But how interesting dates do we make ourselves? That’s a question which can lay bare some rather ugly answers! So instead of delving into the question, lets come up with answers. How do you make yourself an interesting date? The obvious answer is, be an interesting person first. If you are not a person who takes interest in your own self, no one will be interested to know you or lift up the veil and take a peep. Cultivate an interesting personality that people would like to know more about. Update yourself about what’s going on so that you don’t come across as someone who came to the date straight from some cave in the mountains.

Ok, you are great at soccer or at the saxophone, so what? Do you have to keep repeating that to your date? It only gives the signal that you are only capable of that and nothing else. Diversify your topics of discussion. Anyway, we hardly retain what we hear, if you keep harping on the same point, it becomes really tedious. You talk on a date, you don’t give sermons. Listen to your date and converse accordingly. If the person is not comfortable talking about a point, drop it immediately. Pressing on a weak nerve strikes off alarm bells in the mind of your date. Be open, honest and share your thoughts. If you clamp up, the date goes down the spiral as well. Do you have other ideas that you want to add? Chime in.