Are You Into Adventure Sports?
Rick is a traveler and a car fanatic. He’s the type who needs to keep on pumping his adrenaline. He wants to go bungee jumping each time he and Kaitlin go out on a holiday. These adventure sports and all are getting on Kaitlin’s nerves now. She wants a break from all these and have a quiet holiday by the sea. But she complains that Rick never meets her in the middle when it comes to planning a holiday. She is also worried about the safety issues. Do you think it’s fair on Kaitlin that Rick plans these adventure holidays every time? Do you know somebody who faced the same problem? Your comments here could help Kaitlin.
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I think that if she is pushed into risky situations without being provided save option she will start thinking that this relationship is actually not working for her own good.
B. Rick should plan vacations with Kaitlin if she is coming along. Yet, I feel he can do what he likes on these vacations as Kaitlin should do what she likes. After all it is a vacation where you’re supposed to have fun. I understand how Kaitlin may feel though as it isn’t very restful watching your partner do a bungy. Though it is thrilling. I do have a writer friend who likes to take trips to dangerous places in the world and I do worry about him. I often think how must his family feel every time he takes a trip. He has a wife and daughter and if he were to die they would be without a husband and a father. But it is thrilling to read of his adventurous trips. He is amazing and I am so glad he writes about his adventures and shares it with the rest of the world. He makes alot of sacrifices for our reading pleasure. Secretly I wish I could go with him. See what he sees. Hear what he hears. Be with the people he meets and writes about. But I am not so brave as he. L.
Hey, risky sports can be real fun, but not too much though. Couples do not always bave to do the same thing together all the time. Give each other freedom and space to breathe, but keep each other in mind all the time. The relationship could last longer.
If Rick menage to make Kaitlin to trust him more, ( as he started to do) she would probably consider traveling with him as an option as long as it is not crossing any safety or morality issues and as long as she will not be away for long from her normal life. She would probably still think of him as being crazy, but it will be different if she starts trusting him, for a change.
I think Rick should be more flexible and ask Kaitlin where she would like to go for holidays. When they both plan a holiday together that would be more fun for both. And translate into a long lasting relationship.